38 Experiences to add to my Bucket List

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Birthdays don’t bring out the best in me.

Instead of celebrating being another year wiser, reflecting on a year of great experiences and appreciating being healthy and having great family and friends in my life, I approach birthdays with a sense of insecurity and impending doom.

I can’t help it.

I get depressed about being single (even though I love my independence and would rather be on my own than with the wrong person), I moan about not having children (even though I don’t actually want children), I detest the accounting career that has seen me stuck in a 9-to-5 office job rut for most of the past 17 years (even though it has also paid for a 15 month career break, other travel opportunities and the deposit on my London flat) and I view being another year older as a step closer to my grave and start panicking about not doing everything I want to in life.

Every birthday feels like a mid-life crisis. But this year is going to be different.

I recently reflected on some of the amazing travel adventures I’ve experienced in my “40 Countries, 40 Travel Ideas to Inspire You” article, so the time feels right to start planning some more. As the clock ticks over to an age I’ve been dreading since I turned 37 last year, I’m celebrating it by adding 38 things to my “bucket list” - 38 things I want to do before I die.

  1. Take time out to explore my home, the country I left 12 years ago, on my Great Aussie Road Trip
  2. Find a way to earn a living doing something I am passionate about that doesn't involve the suffocating routine of a 9-to-5 office job
  3. Turn the dream trip of a lifetime into reality and save up for an Antarctica Expedition, sharing the ice with penguins, seals, whales and birdlife (whilst wearing a really warm jacket!)
  4. Head to the opposite pole to search for polar bears in their natural environment
  5. Return to one of my favourite places in the world (Africa) to repeat one of my favourite experiences of all time (wildlife safari) during the annual migration from the Serengeti to an area I didn't see on my last visit to the country (Maasai Mara, Kenya)
  6. Have an article or photograph published
  7. Extend my exploration of South East Asia to one of the few countries in the region I have yet to visit, Indonesia, and enjoy a mojito as the sun is setting on one of its tropical beaches whilst singing Redgum’s “I’ve been to Bali too”
  8. Return to Myanmar, a place that provided one of my most humbling travel experiences of all time, to hopefully learn that the recent change in the political environment has encouraged more travellers to visit the country to create additional income and opportunities for the locals, without leaving the negative aspects of tourism behind when they leave
  9. Explore the temples, shrines and gardens of Kyoto during the cherry blossom season in Japan
  10. Force myself to slow down in an ashram or spiritual retreat in Asia, appreciate simply “being” instead of wondering “what next” and learn to meditate
  11. Get up close and personal with the lemurs and other unique wildlife of Madagascar
  12. Return to Iceland in winter to search for the Northern Lights and revisit my favourite location, Jokulsarlon Glacier Lagoon, to witness the surreal floating ice in a different season
  13. Trek the terraced rice fields of Banaue in the Philippines to assess whether the locals’ description of it being the “eighth wonder of the world” is warranted before heading south to chillax on the beaches
  14. Further explore my spiritual side on a journey through Tibet
  15. Get my hands dirty with some organic farming somewhere in the world with a WWOOF holiday
  16. Take advantage of my recent experience at driving on the ‘wrong’ side of the road and head to Yellowstone (USA) with my camera and hiking boots in search of beers, wolves, bison, moose and other wildlife amidst the waterfalls and geysers of the world’s first national park’s thermal region
  17. Be in a country when they win the football World Cup (and accept that it’s unlikely to be in England)
  18. Contrast my recent experiences in East and Southern Africa with an overland adventure through the Western countries of Ghana, Gambia, Mali, Burkina Faso, Cameroon, Senegal, Nigeria, Niger and Togo
  19. Take off my watch, put on my hiking shoes, pick up my camera and lose myself (not literally) in the Canadian Rocky Mountains
  20. Stand opposite Petra (Jordan) in the cave that Karl Pilkington described as the “better piece of real estate” due to its view
  21. Embrace the ‘real’ religion of South America with locals at a football match
  22. Pack my bikini, sunglasses, sunscreen, kindle and party shoes for some Greek Island hopping
  23. Head off the beaten track to explore the geographical diversity of Oman
  24. Treat myself to a spa resort on a Caribbean Island and watch a live cricket match in the West Indies
  25. Sip a glass of Pimms at Wimbledon and go punting in Cambridge, two ‘must do’ things in England that I still haven’t done after living in London for 12 years
  26. Embrace my inner David Attenborough, avoid being eaten by a piranha and attempt to co-exist with blood-sucking leeches in the Amazon
  27. Replace the Ethiopian stereotype placed in my mind by Bob Geldof in the 1980’s with a stereotype created from my own visit to the country
  28. Visit Colombia to discover for myself if the positive backpacker recommendations for this country outweigh its negative media perception
  29. Take what I’ve learned from both positive and negative volunteer and NGO experiences and apply it to more volunteering and international aid support in developing countries
  30. Follow up my first European encounter 13 years ago with a photography-focused European escape, including countries I haven’t yet visited such as Croatia, Romania, Poland, Bulgaria, Slovakia and Slovenia.
  31. Party with the locals in Rio, Brazil
  32. Head to the Galapagos Islands to discover if it’s really true that it’s one of the most incredible wildlife locations on earth
  33. Hike through and photograph some of the most dramatic landscapes in the world at Patagonia in Argentina.
  34. Head south to New Zealand to confirm whether the magical landscapes depicted in Lord of the Rings was reality or just great camera work
  35. Watch re-runs of Northern Exposure and then head to Alaska to see how accurate the depiction of this unique state was
  36. Embrace the cigar, rum, classic car, salsa stereotype of Cuba
  37. Join the Gringo Trail and explore South and Latin America with a flexible itinerary and no deadlines
  38. Leave my accounting career and office job behind to experience a year or two of odd jobs and explore alternate career paths

 

Have you had any of these experiences?

What is on your own bucket list?

Kellie Netherwood

No matter how we travel there is always further to go.  The world is full of open doors - new friends to make, different cultures to experience, inspirational images to capture and lessons to learn.  As I enjoy life's journey to DESTINATION UNKNOWN I am energised by the world we live in and inspired by those paving their own path in life.  Through the intersection of my travel, writing and photography passions I share my travel adventures to help inspire you to create your own.

Website: www.mydestinationunknown.com/

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0 # Kellie Netherwood 2012-07-06 17:19
I'm so excited to hear this inspired you to write your own bucket list! I found it such a great way to remind myself that I "work to live" instead of "live to work" and that it's not difficult to get the balance right when you have things to look forward to!

Thanks for the Slovenia tip, I look forward to seeing it my myself.

Good luck with you own bucket list and I look forward to one day reading about how your experiences turned out!
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0 # Charli 2012-07-06 02:13
I loved reading your bucket list! Those all sound like some fabulous things to do and I look forward to reading about your adventures as you go out and do them. I absolutely urge you to visit Slovenia. I went there a few years ago, we intended to stay for a couple of days and stayed for almost a week at Lake Bled. It's the most beautiful little country I've ever been to. The capital was gorgeous, and had a real "small town" feel to it - nothing like London!

Your post inspired me to sit down and write my own bucket list, and I feel much...lighter...for having got all those thoughts out of my head on down onto paper, thank you! And by paper, I mean my blog :)

Good luck with your bucket list!
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